1. Never date a stranger in a foreign country.
We can find love anywhere even on the moon
It is true that coming together of different people from different countries, can foster economic growth and bring development, but it will interest you to know that you simply do not have to hang around with everyone you see in a foreign country for you know less or nothing about their constitution and you can be blackmailed, robbed or even killed.
Many people who are in jail today ended up as a result of coming in contact with strange people in foreign countries.
2. Never serve pork to a Muslim and never serve beef to a Hindu.
You should be the only one who knows what pork and beef taste like.
Remember that one man’s meat is another one’s poisons. Hence this holds to be true, stay safe and never serve that which another man considers a poison to him.
It can ruin your relationship with the person and lead to several problems unexpectedly, this is what is supposed to be an act of kind requiring appreciated but it is against their belief, so serve pork and beef to only people who enjoy eating it.
3. Never send your naked images/videos to someone via messenger especially when you are married.
No matter what could be said in praise of long distance relationship and the introduction of many technologies to initial virtual proximity, the truth still remains that you will always miss your loved ones whenever they are not around.
Yes, you want to keep the relationship, you don’t want to lose him/her and here come an option from a friend or your thought “send him/her your n*de” to keep him/her feeling around you. Boom you have sent it…
People can take relationship this far (sending n*des) if you are in a relationship and not yet married (even if you’re married, think twice about this), sending your n*de can lead to a lot of problems especially when you are having misunderstanding, it could be used as a threat for you to do something against your own will because you don’t want to join millions of people in watching your n*de online across different social media platform. Even if not by the receiver, probably by intruders or spy on the receiver’s device.
The trauma and psychological effect it can pose on a person are usually unbearable, no one will feel comfortable about this less you’re a porn star who gets paid in sharing n*des.
4. Never borrow money to your friends.
Do not make the mistake of borrowing money to your friend, this does not mean that you shouldn’t help your friends; a friend in need is a friend indeed. Actually, borrowing money to your friend can make you lose both your money and friend.
Also in business, if growing higher is part of your plans, you should never sell credit to your friends or relations. A popular quote warns that you should never sell credit to your friends…
When you borrow money to someone close to you, let it be something you can forfeit, just in case something goes out of an initial agreement. But if this is not what you can forfeit, to keep your relationship, you seriously don’t have to give out the money.
5. Never leave your laptop turned on and go to the bathroom when your wife is home.
Should married people even keep secrets? Everyone supposed to be transparent to their partner it gives access for rapid and healthy growth of enjoyable love. Yet things can go wrong when a piece of information is misinterpreted.
While working on your laptop, there may be certain files or project you need not a third party to see or a chat between you and your coworker, if it is anything frequent your wife might develop a sudden change in attitude she might not tell you so that you can start your explanation. It can easily create a scenario where she jumps into conclusion that you’re cheating or you’re about to use a family property to gain a loan to expand your business.
6. Never mock a person who has faith in God even you are an atheist.
This is another way to say have regards for what people believe in.
When you respect peoples’ opinions about what they believe in, you too will be respected for what you consider supreme and worthy of your praise.
Think about the world and what it will look like if everyone had one thought about everything if everyone believes in only one religion, can you make out anything good from it?
Most people who have disregards for what other people believe in are people who have not come close to know what their religion is all about. Yet this will surely affect their interactions with people in their day to day activities, that one might question to know your religion so as to ascertain the level of interactions that will be allowed.
7. Never smoke for fun.
If you once do you will be addicted and spoil your life.
You must have heard about the dangerous effect of smoking and numerous warnings from the ministry of health in your country that smokers are liable to die you, yet you want to try it for fun?
According to Wikipedia on the psychology of smoking, Behavioural research generally indicates that teenagers begin their smoking habits due to peer pressure, and cultural influence portrayed by friends. However, one study found that direct pressure to smoke cigarettes played a less significant part in adolescent smoking, with adolescents also reporting low levels of both normative and direct pressure to smoke cigarettes. Mere exposure to tobacco retailers may motivate smoking behaviour in adults.
Many people who are addicted to smoking today, started from testing what it feels like to smoke and today they can’t go back on smoking.
8. Never be surrounded by failed people when you fail in life.
No one hopes to be a failure but in most cases, it happens like an accident to us, and if we can’t prevent it, it comes but when it does we can remedy it depending on the type of people we surround ourselves with.
There are a number of people who believe in the saying, “It has been so” people of this nature do not accept change easily, their thoughts are engraved on failures, and if you surround yourself with them when you fail, you will further be dragged down in failure.
This is just like seeking a piece of relationship advice from a divorcee, the divorcee will give you thousands if not millions of reasons to quit yours, always keep people with good vibes around you.
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