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Twenty ways to bring out the best in your wife

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1. Serve the Lord with all your soul, heart,mind and strength and let God bring out the best in you.
2. Obey the scriptures regarding your wife.
3. Tell her you love her(not as a foreplay audible)
4. Listen to her.
5. Love her even when she does not “deserve it”.
6. Compliment her on her beauty, clothes, cooking, spirituality and marital “performance”.
7. Give her flowers regularly(and not the cheesy ones)
8. Be honest with her at all times(but avoid suicidal opinions)
9. Tell her you think of no other woman(i.e, no alternate fantasies)
10. Pray with her.
11. Don’t insist on sex when she is tired.
12. Maintain a godly, peaceful atmosphere in your home.
13. Keep her laughing(self-deprecating humor works best)
14. When she is wrong, have a character to admit it.
15. Remind her that opposite attracts and that you’re the smart one.
16. Don’t flake out on date night.
17. Rubdowns are good(and so is whatever happens after)
18. Get her something hot during the wintertime or cold during the summertime.
19. Avoid criticizing her(an effective antidepressants)
20. Try to maintain the romance(very important)

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  1. Emmanuel Nathaniel September 28, 2022

    I love number 10. Some men have the habit of praying alone, which is not good. Remember that the woman is now part of you or she is you.

    1. Blessing John October 13, 2022

      No 8 is the best honest matter in a relationship and marriage

    2. Emida Abidemi October 18, 2022

      Yes you are communicating .well said

  2. Gbaboyor Felix September 28, 2022

    Nice piece, but number 20 requires grace and commitment.

      2. Ogunmakinwa Evelyn October 15, 2022

        Prayer which is number 10 is a very important key in marriage

    2. Adegoke Moses October 15, 2022

      Nice write up but what about we men

  3. Precious Okhae September 28, 2022

    Thanks for this wonderful article

    1. Ezeh Mmesoma September 28, 2022

      If atleast 80% of men should practice this, I think the rate of divorce will reduce??

          1. Anuoluwapo Amoo September 30, 2022

            Nice one

      1. Ogunmakinwa Evelyn October 15, 2022

        Prayer which is number 10 is a very important key in marriage and only in marriage also in all rancification of life.

  4. Mgbakor Uchenna Samson September 28, 2022

    Communication is also important both the two parties call each other when out on travel

  5. David Attah September 28, 2022

    Communication and mutual respect also matters trust too is important

    2. Emmanuel Inalegwu November 9, 2022

      If we are honest with them hope they will do same to us

  6. Usman Opeyemi September 28, 2022

    Communication and mutual understanding also matters

    1. Semiu Oyeyode October 18, 2022

      By listening to wife in a marriage it allows marriage to strong

  7. Okeoghene Unweh September 28, 2022

    Really interesting. These are some food for thought.

    1. Aishat Zubair September 29, 2022

      Number 16, Is a very good point some men don’t even go out on a date with their wife n it is not good

  9. christiana shola September 28, 2022

    This are very important to grow and have a happy family

    1. Celine Odo September 29, 2022

      Waww my hubby really needs to read this

  10. Chibueze Ajoku September 28, 2022

    That is very true… Every thing can b achieve with God on there side

  11. Chibueze Ajoku September 28, 2022

    That is very true… Every thing can b achieve with God on there side. I wish the same for the ladies.

  13. Happiness Orji September 29, 2022

    Very good,I think men really need to read this is indeed educative

  14. Rabiu Toheeb September 29, 2022

    This is article,I learn something therr,thanks for sharing this.

  15. Faith Ugonna September 29, 2022

    Outlined accordingly, thanks

    1. Martha Ukaegbu September 30, 2022

      Lovely write up. May God bless you for this information ?

  20. Iyiola Immanuel September 29, 2022

    Good article… God in all things ?

  22. Ebelechukwu Ndubuisi September 29, 2022

    Number four is very important. Keep it up

    2. Blessing Oghenenyerowho October 18, 2022

      Thanks for sharing, I believe this will help alot of marriages.

  26. Gabriel Tamarabibo Mary September 30, 2022

    That’s a good advice, may God help us all

  32. Fadeke Duyile October 1, 2022

    Intelligent piece of advice

  33. Daniel Daniel October 2, 2022

    No. 3 interest me the more, you hve to love your wife and putting God first will make both the family and wife do their best to maintain a happy home

  34. Michael Marvellous October 3, 2022

    Thank you for sharing
    Very good points

  35. Taiwo Oyalude October 3, 2022

    That number 16 is good educative

  41. William Nuhu October 10, 2022

    Thanks for sharing, I believe this will go a long way in changing family situations.

  48. Barizorge Sordumlesi October 17, 2022

    I really love this number 10

  50. Prince Johnson October 18, 2022

    Thanks for the great advice

  52. Prince Johnson October 19, 2022

    Yes prayer is the most compulsory tuition in the family

  54. Mba Precious October 27, 2022

    That’s slot
    Can’t wait to get married.

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